You are looking at spots on your baby that do not fade when you press on them. Here is your decision tree:
Step 1: Do the glass test. Press a clear glass against the spots. Do they fade? If yes, it is not petechiae — it is a blanching rash, and while it may still need evaluation, it is not the emergency this guide covers. If the spots remain visible through the glass, continue.
Step 2: Take your baby's temperature. Use whatever thermometer you have. Rectal is gold standard for babies under 3 months. If your baby has ANY fever — 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit or higher — skip to Step 5.
Step 3: Assess your baby. Is your baby eating, alert, and acting normally? Or are they lethargic, irritable, pale, floppy, or refusing to feed? If your baby looks unwell, skip to Step 5 even without a fever.
Step 4 (no fever, baby looks well): Look for a cause. Did your baby just vomit, cough hard, cry intensely, or have something tight pressing on the area? Are the spots localized to the face and neck, or to a pressure point? If you can identify a clear mechanical cause and the baby is well, you are likely dealing with benign petechiae. Take a photo, draw a circle around the area with a pen, and check in 30 minutes. If the spots are stable or fading and no fever develops, monitor at home and mention it to your pediatrician. If the spots are spreading, go to Step 5.
Step 5: Go to the emergency department. If there is any fever, if your baby looks unwell, or if the spots are spreading — go now. Bring the photos you took. Tell triage: "My baby has a non-blanching rash." Those words will get you seen quickly, because every ER triages non-blanching rash with fever as high acuity.