If you are struggling to quit, you are not alone and you are not a bad parent. Nicotine addiction is a medical condition — it physically alters your brain chemistry. Quitting is hard, and many people need multiple attempts. The most important thing is to keep trying.
Talk to your provider honestly about your smoking. They are there to help, not judge. Behavioral counseling during pregnancy is effective, and nicotine replacement therapy may be recommended if counseling alone is not enough — the controlled nicotine from NRT is considered less harmful than the thousands of chemicals in cigarette smoke.
For other substances to avoid during pregnancy, see our alcohol during pregnancy guide and our caffeine during pregnancy guide. For overall prenatal care and support, see our prenatal visit schedule. For safe medication options, see our pregnancy-safe medications guide.