At 35 weeks, you might experience a new sensation: "lightning crotch." This is a sharp, sudden pain in the pelvis or vagina caused by pressure on nerves as your baby's head moves lower. It's startling but harmless — and surprisingly common in the final weeks of pregnancy.
Your bladder is under siege. As your baby drops lower (or simply grows bigger), the pressure on your bladder intensifies. You may find yourself needing to urinate every 30 minutes, and you might leak a little when you cough, sneeze, or laugh. Pelvic floor exercises (Kegels) can help, and they're worth doing — they'll also support your recovery after birth.
Braxton Hicks contractions are likely a daily occurrence. Some people find that certain activities trigger them — walking, climbing stairs, intimacy, or even the baby's movements. They should remain irregular and manageable. If they become regular or increasingly painful, that's a different story.
Back pain may be at its peak. Your body is carrying significant extra weight in front, and the hormone relaxin continues to loosen your pelvic joints and ligaments. Warm baths, prenatal massage, and sleeping with a pillow between your knees can help.
Insomnia is nearly universal at this stage. If you can't sleep at night, don't fight it — get up, do something quiet, and try again later. Napping during the day is not lazy; it's essential.
Emotionally, this is a common time for anxiety to peak. The birth is approaching, and the reality of caring for a newborn can feel overwhelming. Talk to your partner, friends, or provider about your feelings. Anxiety is normal and doesn't mean you're not ready.