At 39 weeks, waiting is the hardest part. Your body may feel like it's been pregnant forever, and every sensation is analyzed: was that a contraction? Is something happening? The hypervigilance is exhausting, and it's completely normal.
Your cervix may be starting to dilate (open) and efface (thin). Your provider may check this at appointments, but it's worth knowing that cervical status is not a reliable predictor of when labor will start. You can be 3 cm dilated for weeks, or you can go from 0 to active labor in hours. Try not to read too much into the numbers.
Signs that labor may be approaching include: loss of the mucus plug, bloody show, persistent lower back pain, diarrhea, a sudden burst of energy (nesting), and Braxton Hicks that seem to be getting more regular. None of these mean labor is about to start right now, but they suggest your body is preparing.
Real labor is unmistakable once it's established. Contractions will be regular, progressive, and impossible to talk through. They won't stop when you rest, drink water, or change positions. When this happens, start timing them and review our guide on when to go to the hospital or follow your provider's guidance.
Understanding the stages of labor can help you manage expectations. Early labor can last hours (or even days for some first-time parents). Active labor is when things progress quickly. Transition is intense but brief. And then — pushing and meeting your baby.
If your provider has discussed the possibility of a C-section, whether planned or as a contingency, being informed about the procedure will help you feel prepared. You may also want to explore natural pain relief options for labor so you know all your choices when the time comes.
Emotionally, this is often a time of intense anticipation mixed with moments of fear. That's normal. You are more prepared than you think. Trust your body, trust your care team, and trust yourself.