Write your questions down before you go
Your brain will go blank the second you walk in. Keep a running note on your phone between visits — add to it at 3am when you think of something.
Bring your tracking data
Pediatricians genuinely love when you can say 'she averaged 6 feeds and 8 wet diapers a day this week.' It gives them something real to work with instead of guesswork.
Ask what's coming next
Before you leave, ask: 'What should I expect before our next visit?' Knowing what's ahead makes the in-between weeks way less stressful.
Stop comparing to other babies
Percentiles show your baby's trend, not their rank. A baby cruising along at the 15th percentile who stays there is doing great. It's not a competition.