"Colostrum isn't enough — babies need formula in the first days." For most healthy, full-term newborns, colostrum alone is sufficient. The AAP, WHO, and ABM all recommend exclusive breastfeeding from birth, with supplementation reserved for specific medical indications (excessive weight loss >10%, hypoglycemia, jaundice, dehydration signs). The Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine's Protocol #3 outlines exactly when early supplementation is appropriate — and it's a shorter list than the formula marketing would suggest.
"You should be hand expressing colostrum into a spoon to make sure baby gets it." Hand expression after nursing can be helpful to collect colostrum for supplementation if baby is having trouble latching, but for a baby who is latching and swallowing at the breast, the colostrum is going directly where it needs to go. You don't need to add extra expression if feeds are going well.
"More colostrum is better." Not necessarily. Kent et al. (2006) documented significant variation in early milk volumes between individuals. A parent who produces 30 ml of colostrum per day and a parent who produces 100 ml per day can both have adequately fed babies. Volume varies; what matters is whether baby is meeting output markers.
"Colostrum production means your milk will come in fine." Colostrum is produced by a different hormonal mechanism (driven by progesterone withdrawal) than mature milk production (driven by prolactin and milk removal). Having colostrum doesn't guarantee abundant mature milk, and having low colostrum doesn't predict low supply. These are separate processes.