If your baby was born prematurely, one of the most important concepts to understand is corrected age (also called adjusted age). Your baby's actual age is the time since birth. Their corrected age is the time since their original due date. The difference matters because brain and body development follows gestational time, not calendar time.
A baby born at 28 weeks spent 12 fewer weeks developing in the womb compared to a full-term baby. When that baby is 6 months old by the calendar, their brain and body have had the equivalent of about 3 months of post-term development. Expecting them to meet 6-month milestones is neither fair nor accurate.
The AAP recommends using corrected age for developmental assessment until at least 24 months. Some developmental specialists continue correcting until 36 months for very preterm infants (born before 28 weeks). This is not "making excuses" for your baby — it is using the developmentally appropriate benchmark.