If your baby screams the second they're placed face-down, you're not alone. Here's how to make it work anyway.
Start ridiculously small
Even 30 seconds counts. One minute counts. The goal is to build positive associations, not hit a time target. If they last 90 seconds before fussing, that's a successful session. You can always add more time later.
Timing matters more than you think
Try tummy time when your baby is well-rested and fed (but not immediately after — wait 15–20 minutes after a feed to avoid spit-up). Right after a diaper change is often a sweet spot. Never during a tired or hungry meltdown.
Get on the floor with them
Your face is the most interesting thing in your baby's world. Get down at their eye level, talk to them, make silly faces. Suddenly tummy time is face-time-with-my-favorite-person time.
Use distractions strategically
High-contrast cards or books propped up at eye level, a small mirror, a crinkly toy, or even your phone playing a video of themselves — anything that captures their attention long enough to forget they're doing tummy time.
Try a different position
Floor tummy time isn't the only option. Chest time, lap time, football hold, or a Boppy pillow all count. If they hate the floor, work up to it gradually over weeks.
Normalize the fussing
Some fussing is okay — it's hard work and they're letting you know. There's a difference between 'this is hard and I don't love it' fussing and 'I'm in distress' crying. Learn your baby's signals and honor the real distress, but know that mild protest is normal.