Don't fight the clinginess
During a leap, your baby's world is literally changing. The neural connections forming in their brain are making everything look, feel, and sound different. Of course they want to cling to the one constant in their life: you. This isn't a bad habit forming. It's a temporary need that will pass when the leap ends.
Maintain routines loosely
Keep your normal schedule as a framework, but be flexible about the details. If naps are shorter, that's okay. If bedtime needs to move earlier because they're exhausted, do it. The structure helps even when it's not working perfectly. It gives your baby predictability during an unpredictable internal experience.
Don't sleep train during a leap
If you're in the middle of sleep training or planning to start, a developmental leap is not the time. Your baby's brain is reorganizing and they genuinely need more comfort right now, not less. Wait until the leap passes and things stabilize, then resume. You won't lose progress by pausing.
Watch for the new skill
The silver lining of every leap is the ability that emerges at the other end. Pay attention. After a few rough days, you'll suddenly notice your baby doing something new. Rolling over, babbling differently, reaching with intention, understanding a word. That moment makes the rough patch worth it.
This isn't a regression, it's progression
The fussiness isn't your baby going backward. It's the growing pain of going forward. Their brain is building new connections, and that process is genuinely uncomfortable and confusing for them. Reframing it this way can make the hard days feel a little more manageable.