The golden rule: treat everything before 6 AM as nighttime.
When your baby wakes at 5:15, your instinct is to just start the day. You're exhausted, they're awake, and fighting it feels pointless. But starting the day before 6 AM reinforces the early wake-up cycle. Here's the approach that helps reset things:
Keep the room dark. Don't open curtains, don't turn on lights, don't check your phone where they can see the screen. Dark room, dark signals.
Keep interactions boring. If you need to go in, use a quiet voice, minimal eye contact, and no stimulation. You're communicating: "It's still sleep time."
Offer a feed if needed, but treat it as a night feed. Dark room, quiet, back to bed afterward. Don't transition into a morning feed with lights on and conversation.
If they won't go back to sleep, that's okay. Keep them in their crib in the dark until 6 AM. They might babble, fuss, or play. That's fine. You're not being cruel — you're teaching their body clock where morning starts. Even if they don't fall back asleep, the dark, boring environment helps shift the circadian rhythm over time.
Be consistent for at least 7 to 10 days. The body clock is slow to change. You're resetting a biological pattern, not flipping a switch.